Theory of a Woman's Touch

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Females who do not masturbate/sexually self please themselves, are more likely to be unfaithful in long distant "committed" relationships, in comparison to those who regularly or even semi regularly "please" themselves.

What do you think?

"In July"

This verse start’s as my sniper hits they mark
And your guards fall down from a rifle to the heart
Like, clap, clap, let em fall slow
I know you had your fears, you can let em all go

-Drake
 

Man's Emotional Wall

Women everywhere want to know.. “Why don’t men talk about their feelings?” It’s an age old question that the fairer sex has not quite yet been able to figure out. Truth be told ladies, you haven’t even gotten close. You try so hard and dig so deep, but yet the answer (although some may find it superficial) lies at the surface. A man is not allowed to show and/or express his feelings & emotions because society deems it a non-masculine trait. Picture society as this over pompous puppeteer, dictating how a “Man”, the stereotypical all mighty, never wavering, always secure and confident man should act, live, and evidently how close he is able to emotionally confide in his Lady counterpart.

Men find it nearly impossible at times to break away from these strings. This begins at birth, by the time he finds himself in the midst of a quality relationship, its a rap, it has become a subconscious characteristic. And just so that you don’t think men are using society as a scapegoat, there is an additional culprit: the Corpus Callosum. It’s the part of the brain which connects the left and right brain hemisphere. Staying away from the confusing scientifics of it all -but the gist is that this part of the brain is larger in women than in men. The result is that women can think and feel at the same time [i.e. often leading to emotional irrationality, but I digress], while men naturally separate their feelings from what they are thinking. This creates mans reluctance to talk about all that lovey dovey stuff that women love to hash out.

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Life of a Sex Addict

Addict – Defined as; someone who is physiologically dependent on a substance; abrupt deprivation of the substance produces withdrawal symptoms.

But NAWW we’re not DEPENDENT on sex :/ And we most certainly don’t experience WITHDRAW symptoms :\

Oh the lies we tell ourselves. Welcome, my name is Truth. I am that ugly side that stares you dead in your face only when you are strong enough, stupid enough, or confident enough to stand in from of a vacant mirror. I, like many of you, am no addict. Addicts are those who developed over zealous habits of drug use, alcohol intake, or OCD cases. Those people are addicts. Right?

So at this point it is important to understand who you’re trying to convince. Please, keep your excuses away from my ears cause I have heard it all. Chances are, if you’re reading this we have either A) had sex B) will have sex C) Are linked through the great vine sexually. Sex is a drug point blank. We put such a major emphasis upon sex in and outside of our relationships that it has grown to become this deity that we NEED in order to sustain ourselves as individuals or to sustain us within our relationships. We seek acceptance through sex, we seek to attempt to secure our partner by quickly engaging in sex, we seek fun and entertainment through sex, and we somehow have grown to believe that the word relationship is synonymous with sex.

I drank on average about once a week. I have gone months at times without drinking for one reason or another, and neither of these times have I felt physically or mentally “different” as if to be missing the act of drinking alcohol. But if I go months without engaging in sexual activities, I grow anxious. I steadily miss it, and slowly grow in my desire to have it. Whether it is with someone I am currently in a relationship with or with a new partner, my thoughts become drawn to the idea of having sex once again. The degree of these “feelings” vary from person to person, but fact is most of us share this commonality. Welcome to the world of being an Addict. The subtly is neither here nor there. The fact is that we experience some sort of withdraw symptoms and our minds become increasingly wrapped around the idea of having sex once more.

Still in denial? Well then you might just have more than the problem of being an addict on your hand.

To need to want..

It is a weakness of a weak willed person to need someone in or around their life. But to Want, well that’s more of a selection process. Showing and indicating that other options are available to you, but through one’s own individual will and desire has chosen to choose that particular thing or individual.

I dream of the day a women tells me she doesn’t need me. She is whole when alone. She was whole in thought, body, mind, and spirit prior to encountering me, and I would only wish she not stray. I dream of the day a woman tells me she wants me. There are many other men in this world and no matter how cock sure I can pretend to be at times, I humbly respect the reality of neither being the world’s most attractive man nor smartest. By Her, telling me she wants me, gives proof to the indication that she truly and simply just enjoys and prefers my company.

p.s. For the record.. I want Her too.

Faith begins, Where understanding ends..

Women are something I do not understand. So, I bargain. Or better yet, I barter. Offering my faith for that of which I cannot offer; comprehension. Please understand that I rarely do this. I, ladies, am humbling myself by admitting that my mind is unable to figure you all out. But enough of the mushy stuff, I have only come to this conclusion due to another conclusion.. One whom is confused or wavering in thought, cannot and will not be understood.

Disagree? Oh I should hope you do! Ladies, close your eyes and picture your ideal man; body type, style, level of intelligence. Is he ambitious? Goal oriented? Treats you like the queen that you are? Ok, now think of the guy you are currently dating or most recently dated. Is he a match? Does he match your description? 8/10 (and I’m being generous) will have said no, he doesn’t quite match up! Sooo with that being stated, Ladies, why is it that you are not going for what you truly want? No no don’t tell me all that b.s. about Love and how it comes in different forms and ish!! Straight up, majority of you all settle! You know HE is not what you “WANT” but yet you still give him a shot!

In all fairity (new word lol). Guys do this as well. So what’s the dif? Guys, we know when we are settling lol! Ladies you seem to get caught up in your confusion and fool yourselves into thinking “Mr. I dropped outta school to focus on my Rap Career” would somehow undoubtedly transform into “Mr. Hello I am a Lawyer and I own my own practice.” WishFul Thinking?? Haha I think NOT! Sounds more so like, mmm yea Confusion and Wavering in Thought!

*Ladies.. Stop fooling yourselves. Say what you mean, Mean what you say, and Go for what you want.

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Dear Women of War

Everyone is anxious and optimistic to fight before they actually seen what War is like. Battle scars and war wounds will deter your original vigor. You are now a veteran, and know well what awaits you. You only need a quality purpose and a just reason (“a good man”) to lure you into your return to the battle field.

Ladies... "He" is out there.